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** Look here to see more costumes that get
progressively more “sexy.”
It’s that time of year again; as the leaves start
changing color and there’s pumpkin spice everything, the feeling that Halloween
is lurking just around the corner emerges as a reality. Halloween is a fun
holiday for pretty much any age group. Kids can go trick or treating, and
adults can dress up for a spooky night of themed treats. Halloween is an
opportunity to be someone – or something--- you aren’t, just for one night. Or
so it seems.
For
girls and women, however, Halloween may not be such a great treat. We are
forced into a socially constructed box that involves the increasing
sexualization of Halloween Costumes as we age. We may not even realize that
this is happening, but society has developed the notion of an “ideal” woman.
This woman is considered “sexy” or attractive only if she is scantily clad, or
wearing form fitting “feminine” attire. The problem here is not only that not
all women fit into this box, or even want to, but also that such ideals pose
issues for the body image and self-esteem of young and adolescent girls, and
pose larger issues for the female population as a whole.
Women
get bombarded with messages regarding their bodies each day by the media, their
peers, and even their families. The
conscious and unconscious messages tell them how their bodies should look, and increasingly
how they should see their own bodies. These messages usually emphasize the
“thin ideal” and often-times place women in objectifying situations (think
Victoria’s Secret), reducing them to mere objects to be “admired”.
Young
girls are extremely impressionable, taking in everything around them, and
internalizing societal concepts. When the television shows they watch, the music
they listen to, and the advertisements they see showcase these thin, photo-shopped
women, they begin to believe that this is how they are supposed to look. Throughout
history women have always been expected to look a certain way, however, the
over-sexualization of women has increased over the years, and society takes
every opportunity to place women in situations in which to scrutinize their
bodies. Throw a holiday like Halloween into the mix, and instead of a bumblebee
you have a bumble bee wearing hardly any clothing, and it just gets worse as a woman
ages (see photo). In this photo, you can see that as the girl becomes a woman
the sexualization of the bumble bee costume increases dramatically. This
sexualization becomes internalized and is consistently present throughout the
woman’s life, and further manifests itself in other choices of Halloween
costume. Sexualized costumes emphasize how a woman should look and how she
should view herself, undermine childhood innocence, and ultimately depict an
exaggerated feminine ideal that women should strive to achieve.
Further, many costumes place women in objectifying
situations. I’ve seen a few articles floating around about fun “couple
costumes” and couldn’t help but notice that half the time the man was an actual
human, and the woman was the object belonging to his character (for example Dr.
Who and his Tardis, Birthday boy and Piñata, Most Interesting Man and Dos Equis
bottle, Just to name a few) (See the Huffington Post Article below). These
“fun” couple costumes ultimately perpetuate the notion that women are objects
to be owned by men. In these situations, women are reduced to mere accessories,
only existing to satisfy the male who owns them. If this is what young girls are seeing, they are going to
believe that this “sexy object” is what they should aspire to be. It makes me
sick. I am unsettled by the fact that any female should feel that she must
satisfy a male by looking and acting a certain way. This issue also perpetuates
a heteronormative society, and in the end everyone pays the price. Men and
women are expected to be “pairs,” women are expected to be owned by men,
fitting a specific level of attractiveness, and men are expected to take
ownership and be strong and unemotional.
Women already feel so much societal pressure each
day to fit an ideal. Such pressure is damaging to female body image, especially
for girls going through puberty, and sexualized Halloween costumes shouldn’t
add to the problem. A great deal of research has shown that the exposure
females have to hyper-sexualized, thin images (of any kind, not just through
Halloween costumes), are indicative of increased body dissatisfaction, drive
for thinness, disordered eating behaviors, and depression. Exposing females at
young ages, and especially adolescence, to these hyper-sexualized images can
cause many negative consequences regarding their body image and self-esteem. Additionally,
as females are exposed to these images, and they become internalized, they become
extremely dissatisfied if they cannot meet the proposed societal “ideal,” thus
leading to these negative consequences.
I
worry so much for younger generations, as it seems that girls are being
targeted at younger and younger ages to fit this “feminine sexy” mold. Many of
the television shows they watch, the advertisements they see, and some of the
role models they have through the media perpetuate this sexualized objectified ideal
female. Halloween costume advertisements only add to the problem. A young girl
dressing up as a pumpkin once meant a round pumpkin shaped object that the
child popped over their head. Now this means a form fitting dress, tights, and
an adult hairstyle.
It would be difficult to stop the media from
portraying these ideals, but I hope that alternative platforms emerge that
promote body positivity and gender non-conformity to teach younger generations
that they do not need to fit this sexually-objectified-feminine mold. I also hope
parents and mentors foster positive ideals in their young girls, and teach them
that it is okay not to fit such a stereotype. This piece hasn’t even touched on
the mold men are expected to fit into, and I fully acknowledge that they too
face body image disturbances, but I wanted to focus on women because much of my
undergraduate research has focused on women’s body image, and I have also felt
the effects of the “thin-ideal” expectation.
Ultimately, Halloween should be fun, and should not
contribute to the development of body image issues, or gender expectations in
young females, or males for that matter. Women should not be developing body
image disturbances, or self-esteem issues because society has told them to look
and act a certain way; they should have the freedom to look and act how they
please. If they want to be a sexy
bumblebee, so be it, but only because they wish to do so, not because society
has taught them they should.
Huffington Post Article:
Borenson, K. (2015). 20
couples Halloween costumes you won’t roll your eyes at. Huffington Post, Retrieved from http://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/19-couples-halloween-costumes-you-wont-roll-your-eyes-at_5605980fe4b0af3706dc360e
Written by: Meghann Soby
Hi Meghann. I totally hear you when you say it frustrates you that women are objectified by sexy halloween costumes. I also wonder though, what the problem is with being sexual? As a fat woman, I'll be dressing this year as black canary, in my little black leotard, fishnets, and boobs pushed up as far as they go. I love that I can feel sexy, and sexual. I think we need to be careful to recognize that sexual isn't a bad thing, when its a choice. Sure, its great to have non-sexual costumes, but if you want to go out wearing a thong bikini, you don't deserve to feel like you're being objectified or harming future generations of women.
ReplyDeleteThanks for your comment Callie! I totally agree with you. I tried to get at that at the end where I say that the woman can be a sexy bumble bee as long as she chooses too, and wants to, not because she feels like she has to. Essentially the point I was trying to make was that women shouldn't feel that they have to dress in sexy Halloween costumes, but should do so because they want to. So , I appreciate your comment as you have pointed out something that is very important, and I feel as though sometimes women also feel that it is not okay to be sexy. We definitely need to emphasize that there is nothing wrong with being sexy, so long as one feels good while doing it / it is her choice.
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