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Thursday, January 28, 2016

Happy Feminist New Year!! // Jean-Arellia Tolentino



Audre Lorde once stated, “Caring for myself is not self-indulgence, it is self-preservation, and that is an act of political warfare.”  In sentiment, I am moved by the concept that “Self care is warfare”.  Last year was rich in struggles and triumphs that further informed this for me.  There are five highlights from 2015 by womyn of color that every feminist could benefit in integrating into their new year’s resolution/intention/vision boarding/life-lesson-growth-goals:
 
1.    Laverne Cox, resident hairstyling inmate on Netflix’s “Orange Is The New Black” became iconic with her #TransIsBeautiful movement for Black trans struggles and injustices in and out of courtrooms. This movement illustrated how to define your own gender by your own terms.  For more inspiration, check out her page: http://www.lavernecox.com/

2.    2015 also reminded us that iconic symbols of deeply seeped oppression hold historic, and very present-day trauma for many of us.  Bree Newsome scaled a South Carolina Statehouse flagpole, and taking down the Confederate flag.  Feminism in 2016 is, not only tearing down the U.S.’s oppressive past, but it’s also about creating new symbols for our future together. For more inspiration, check out her website: http://www.breenewsome.com/

3.    In 2013, the #BlackLivesMatter movement took the U.S. by storm.  From the streets of Oakland to the Baltimore uprising, it became a political force in 2015. With a powerful mobilization of allies and 96 hours of direct action with #Asian4BlackLives and the Third World for Black Lives contingent, 2015 (and already in 2016) tackled a range of pertinent issues like the #SayHerName campaign and Reclaiming Martin Luther King Jr’s legacy. Feminism in 2016 looks like: being better allies to each other, and working in solidarity towards ending oppression.  Not to mention, the co-founders, and many of the grassroots organizer are powerful feminist! For more inspiration, check out their page: http://blacklivesmatter.com/

4.    2015 was also a great year for examples of following your own voice and passions.  There was Malala Yousafzai, the 18-year-old Pakistani Nobel Peace Prize winner and activist was featured in her own documentary, He Name Me Malala, in 2015 (and, also having time to publicly address presidential candidate Donald Trump for bigoted words toward Muslims and refugees in light of recent terror attacks.)! Also, Nicolle Gonzales, created a one-of-a-kind birth center in the U.S. to serve Native women and families, and Misty Copeland is the first African-American principal dancer in the ballet.  Expressing one’s voice, talents, and passions becomes an inspirational model of following one’s own calling. For more inspiration, check their pages: https://www.malala.org/malalas-story, https://www.facebook.com/thechangingwomaninitiative, http://mistycopeland.com/

5.    If you take anything into 2016, it’s that our youth—our young girls are the future. 2015 taught us that girls are not fragile flowers, or the idiom “playing like a girl” should ever be synonymous with being “weak” (see: US Women’s Soccer Team 2015).  More specifically, 2015 showcased the power of the Radical Brownies.  This powerful group was set up in Oakland, California to empower girls of color and to engage in the community. Unlike the traditional Girl Scouts, these Brownies are not awarded badges for sewing and cooking, but for learning about civil rights and sustainable agriculture. Moreover, there’s also a badge for 'Radical Self Love' and 'LGBT Ally'.  Feminism in 2016 is about instilling young girls with the vision to see themselves as powerful and capable change agents.  For more inspiration, check our their page: https://www.facebook.com/Radical-Monarchs-875969742435827/

We are in the midst of a fourth wave of feminism, and this is the opportunity to redefine Feminism with a bold stance.  From the long overdue June 26th, 2015 U.S. Supreme Court ruling for same-sex marriages in 50 states to feminist male allies like Canada’s Prime Minister Justin Trudeau (http://tinyurl.com/hnp9sfx ), these inspirational victories are necessary in keeping us moving in our feminist work for 2016!  The legacy of Audre Lorde’s work illustrated that complex systems within womyns’ lives systematically prevent our ability to “self-care”.  Today, we still face these complexities: from the interpersonal level of shaming each other to the larger systemic injustices like separating undocumented families, creating policies like decreased maternity leave, or Planned Parenthood closures.  It is literally and figuratively warfare when womyn try to self-care.  In the struggle to love one self, and meet one’s basic needs, it is necessary to identify our accomplishments within the feminist movement. 

Here’s to raising each other up, working in solidarity, and working towards equality by equitable means!! Happy 2016!!!



What does a feminist really look like anyway? // Madeline Brodt

Recent popular culture has engaged in a debate of what the word feminism means and why some are hesitant to self-identify as feminists. From Beyonce (2015) to Aziz Ansari (Murray, 2015), celebrities and critics have weighed in as to who should identify as a feminist and who currently does. A response to this debate is the creation of t-shirts that are emblazoned with “This is what a feminist looks like.” Many celebrities have been spotted wearing these t-shirts and it has led me to wonder what does a feminist wear exactly?


Perhaps it was the practicum interviews I was preparing for recently and making my aesthetic choices I made when attending them. Perhaps it was guided by my interest in contemporary pinup style clothing. Perhaps it was a recent conference experience where multiple people chose to notice my choice of clothing and initiate conversations about it. No matter what brought this up to me recently, I have found that more and more my clothing choices have been of interest to others and what they assume about me.

In order to situate this observation I should share about myself. I am a large woman both in wearing traditionally “plus-sized” clothing but also in height, as I am over six feet tall. I tend to wear dresses that have a pinup style including wearing a petticoat. I tend to not wear makeup except for special occasions or when I feel that my “war paint” would be helpful to my confidence. I have a non traditional haircut and several visible piercings. With this presentation to the world, I have noticed something similar to what Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie describes thusly “Women who wanted to be taken seriously were supposed to substantiate their seriousness with a studied indifference to appearance” (2014, para.7). Loud colors are discouraged while wearing makeup is encouraged inside of our professional practice. I buy into this, as when I choose to wear makeup to a conference or an interview, but I wonder what these choices means about me as a feminist. Do feminists wear dresses as often as I do? Do feminists choose to wear pinup style clothing which is inspired by an era that did not have much justice for people who were not white, cisgender, straight, able bodied men? Do feminists wear suits? Do feminists wait with eager glee for the release of a special edition print dress? Do feminists wear what makes them happy even if it is influenced by the patriarchal values present in our culture? I do not have an idea.

Others have attempted to answer some of these questions. Some state that pinup clothing is feminist (Greco, 2011; Samin, 2015), or that any clothing you enjoy is acceptable (Adiche, 2014), or that an interest in fashion is feminist (Rosenfeld, 2014) and that wearing makeup is acceptable as a personal choice (Iyer, 2015). How do I square these ideas with my personal discomfort with my personal choices at times? I wonder whether or not my choice to wear dresses is simply a way to manage my discomfort with my non-traditional size or whether it is my attempt to adhere to feminine beauty norms. Style is such a nebulous concept that it is difficult to nail down how much of it is not culturally shaped by patriarchal attitudes. I engage in a lot of introspection and criticism about other types of choices in my life. At the same time, I know that totally disengaging from the feminine beauty standard would not benefit me just as presenting with hyper feminine would negatively impact me. There seems to be an unwritten fine line as to what is acceptable for women to wear. Just enough natural looking makeup, severe yet feminine clothes, and a pair of heels is the preferred uniform for women.

With this realization about the lack of introspection I wanted to create a set of questions for myself when creating my presentation in the morning:

  • ·      Am I dressing for myself or for others?
  • ·      Am I prioritizing comfort or style?
  • ·      How am I changing my presentation based on whom I will encounter today?
  • ·      Am I choosing my clothes based on my preferences or for the male gaze?
  • ·      Will I feel confident in my choices even if it is criticized?

I welcome the addition of questions that others ask themselves when working on presenting themselves.


References:
Murray, D. (2015, March 10). A Heart-to-Heart About Feminism With Aziz Ansari. Retrieved from http://www.cosmopolitan.com/entertainment/celebs/q-and-a/a37545/aziz-ansari-feminism-interview/
Hobson, J. (2015, March 7). Beyonce’s Fierce Feminism. Retrieved from http://msmagazine.com/blog/2015/03/07/beyonces-fierce-feminism/
Adichie, C. N. (2014, February 20). Why Can't a Smart Woman Love Fashion? Retrieved from http://www.elle.com/fashion/personal-style/a12670/personal-essay-on-style-by-chimamanda-ngozi-adichie/
Samin, S. (2015, June 14). 7 Reasons Pinup Fashion Is Actually Feminist Even If The Time It Originated In Was Not. Retrieved from http://www.bustle.com/articles/90137-7-reasons-pinup-fashion-is-actually-feminist-even-if-the-time-it-originated-in-was-not
Greco, L. (2011, August 18). Is the Pin-Up Feminist? Retrieved from http://lachristagreco.com/lachrista-greco-1/2011/08/18/is-the-pin-up-feminist
Rosenfeld, J. (2014, April 09). Feminism and Personal Style: Can you have both? Retrieved from http://www.josephrosenfeld.com/feminism-personal-style-can-you-have-both/
Iyer, M. (2015, July 16). Makeup Beauty and Being A Bad Feminist. Retrieved from http://www.literallydarling.com/blog/2015/07/16/makeup-beauty-and-being-a-bad-feminist/